What You Are Looking For is in the Library by Michiko Aoyama

When Jeff and I were in Tokyo in December, there was one thing we could not believe: how polite and kind everyone was. Yes, they also were wearing the nicest clothing we have ever seen, but underneath those designer suits, was a caring community. In a bout of confusion at the metro, when we tried to put the receipt into the ticket reader instead of the ticket, two separate people rushed to our aid to help. Two complete strangers offering help without being asked just because they are so kind. Tokyo is an amazing place, and our visit made me want to read more Japanese fiction. "What You are Looking For is in the Library" by Michiko Aoyama and translated by Alison Watts is an incredibly charming and thoughtful book. The premise is intriguing: Does a librarian have the power to recommend a book and change a person's life forever? In this case, the librarian is Sayuri Komachi, who has read every book, on every shelf, in her library.  She assesses all of her patrons and tries to pair them with the exact book that will suit them best. Set in the fictional neighborhood of Hatori, the library is a place that connects the residents to each other and the world. When Komachi asks each patron what they are looking for, she does not mean just for today but for the future and forever. Sweet, charming, thoughtful but with the absence of being overly saccharine, "What You Are Looking For is in the Library" Is a tribute to the gratitude and kindness of the people of Japan. They take the time to take care of themselves, as well as each other. Japan, I will be back one day, and I can't wait. To buy this book on Amazon click here.

The Hours by Michael Cunningham

For my 60th birthday in December, my brother sent me a list of the years I have been alive, paired with a book published in each year. When I saw the list, I thought, “What a lovely and thoughtful gift from Scott!” It was just like something my dad would have done. The list included some of my favorites, such as Helen Fieldings' "Bridget Jones Diary" and Joan Didion's "Play It as It Lays," and also this special book "The Hours" by Michael Cunningham. Inspired by the work and life of Virginia Woolf, "The Hours" gives us a glimpse into a day in the life of three women. Despite living in three different decades, the women are bonded by their quest to find meaning within one single day. The book, published in 1998, was made into a movie in 2002, with Meryl Streep, Julianne Moore and Nicole Kidman. Searching for happiness, while also plagued by darker thoughts, the women weave their way through a single day, reflecting on the fragility of human life. Cunningham's book is both rich and haunting simultaneously. Recently Cunningham published a new book called "The Day." This time, instead of three women, Cunningham shifts his focus to observing a family, I assume all in one glorious day. I look forward to reading that book next. Thank you @actionpix To buy this book on Amazon click here.

 

The Light We Carry: Overcoming in Uncertain Times by Michelle Obama

The footage from the Rosalynn Carter's funeral last week was fascinating. There was a poignant speech by daughter, Amy, about the love between her parents. There was a warm and very funny speech by her grandson describing her sense of adventure and humor. And there were six first ladies sitting in the front row: Melania Trump, Michelle Obama, Laura Bush, Hilary Clinton, and Jill Biden. This is probably the most diverse group of First Ladies, but the one I was watching was Michelle. She is just my favorite. I love her confidence. I love her style and I love her realness that can only be described as "bad ass." Her second book, "The Light We Carry" is just as good as her first book "Becoming." There is one take away in which I always marvel about Michelle: She had the best mother and father. Every story about them shines off the page. With parents like Marian and Fraser, it is no wonder Michelle is practical, no nonsense, and balanced. She shares stories and wisdom from her life as a wife, mother, daughter, friend, and First Lady. We again hear her gems such as "starting kind," and "going high," but we also get to see her life after her time in the White House. She talks about how learning to knit during the pandemic brought her a calm peace of mind she had never experienced before. The book is a terrific read from beginning to end, and has a companion interview on Netflix with Oprah that brings the stories to life. To buy this book on Amazon click here.

The Cook by Maylis de Kerangal

It is beginning to look a lot like Thanksgiving. The other day I came home from yoga to find my husband on the phone with his sister, Jen. They were engaged in a lively planning session about brussels sprouts, corn-dish, peas and mashed potatoes. I love any talk of food and recipes. So, this slight book "The Cook: A Novel" by Maylis de Kerangal jumped out at me from the library because of its tiny size and delicious looking cover. The book is a meditation and coming-of-age story of a young, self-taught chef named Mauro. Narrated by an unnamed female, who may or may not be in love with Mauro, we see the chef travel to Berlin, Thailand, Burma, and other spots over a 15-year-time span. We get a sense of the mundane, and the exhilaration, of what it is like to be a chef, working your way up in the profession. Despite the highs and lows we see Mauro come back time and again to his love of cooking, and passion for being a chef. This is a book that one can read in one afternoon, and then perhaps follow it up with the latest season of Hulu's "The Bear."  To buy this book on Amazon click here.

Our Missing Hearts by Celeste Ng

The violence, the horror, the terrorism and the fear coming out of the war in Israel is difficult comprehend. The pictures of the young people killed at the music festival, and the stories of small children being murdered is what is most shocking. The fact that such evil exists in 2023 is unfathomable, and I pray that peace can be found. But the fear will forever remain. The fear in the hearts of the children reminded me of this powerful book, "Our Missing Hearts" by Celeste Ng. The author did not expect to write this story about a little boy searching for his mother in a dystopian world. But then the pandemic happened, and she saw anti-Asian racism rear its ugly head in America, because of the rumored origins of the Covid-19 virus. As the child of a mixed raced family, Ng felt the need to speak up. She pivoted her narrative in an effort to expose a world in her book which legalizes racism and outlaws dissent. Ng set her main character, Bird, and his librarian father in Cambridge, Mass., in a claustrophobic world much like the "Handmaiden's Tale." In an article in "Time" magazine, Ng said she hesitated to write this book because it would be political, and it would put her "out there." But sometimes the boldest step one can make in the face of fear, is to become part of the conversation. Ng infuses Bird with the desire to search for his Chinese American poet mother, when others have told him to forget her. Bird flies in the face of fear in a quest for love and acceptance. A beautiful sentiment, especially during this horrifying time in the world. To buy this book on Amazon click here.

Nora Goes Off Script by Annabel Monaghan

I am frequently the most romantic person in any room. A nurse at my hospice believes this is because my father directed too many romantic comedies. And that is true. When you grow up seeing Richard Gere dance with Julia Roberts in your backyard, you tend to skew romantic. So, I always like to recommend a good romantic book, and this one is a winner, loaned to me by my friend Fran. Nora is a screenwriter for a romance channel, much like Hallmark. It is a job that has supported her two children and husband, before and after their divorce. When one of her scripts gets chosen to be a major motion picture, her life as a small-time television writer changes. When the director opts to shoot the movie in Nora's own home and backyard, her worlds collide. Enter Leo Vance, the famous and handsome star of the movie. The two become fast friends, and when the movie is over, he does not want to leave. He offers to pay Nora to let him rent a room in her cottage. At first glance, this might seem like a routine romantic comedy, but I found the relationships complicated, messy, entertaining and refreshing. Nora and Leo are grownups with responsibilities, not young adults, and that makes it more interesting. If you are a romantic, or looking to add a little romance to your week, check out "Nora Goes Off Script." To buy this book on Amazon click here.

The Many Lives of Mama Love by Lara Love Hardin

My new friend Scott Kerson travels a lot, and I like those people who travel a lot because they are usually good readers. So, when he posted a recent picture of this book, I jumped at the chance to read it. The story of a soccer mom turned drug addict, turned ghostwriter, is right up my alley. "The Many Lives of Mama Love" chronicles Hardin's secret life stealing neighbors’ credit cards to fund her heroin addiction, among other crimes. When she ends up in jail, convicted of 32 felonies, her road to recovery begins. The epiphany of her time in jail is that the structure of prison actually suits her personality quite well. For her, the release from prison is the scary part because she has to figure out a plan for the rest of her life. Always a good writer, she gets a job ghostwriting for other people and turns it into a wonderful career. The irony is that she doesn't just write for small time writers, but ghosts books for Desmond Tutu, as well as the Dalai Lama. The most heartbreaking part of the book is that despite her new life, she is still haunted by the time she spent in prison. Society does not let her move forward, without continually dragging her back into her difficult past. After years of ghostwriting, "The Many Lives of Mama Love," is Hardin's chance to speak with her own voice, and share her true story, which is a book well done. To buy this book on Amazon click here.

 

 

 

A Pocketful of Happiness by Richard E. Grant

I started following a lot of new people during the pandemic and one of them was this actor, Richard E. Grant. He just appeared in my Instagram feed one day. He was walking alone in the countryside, and he was grieving. His walking, talking and conversations about grief spoke to me, and I needed to know more. I knew Grant as the star of one of my all-time favorite movies ever: "Withnail and I." And I had seen him in other movies, but I know nothing about his personal life, which is rare for me. So, I read his latest memoir "A Pocketful of Happiness," which details not only his impressive career but also the death of his beloved wife, Joan Washington, from lung cancer. The irony of this beautifully written book is that as Joan, a celebrated movie voice coach, was fighting cancer, his career began to soar. He drew accolades around the world from his performance in "Can You Ever Forgive me?" with Melissa McCarthy. He even was nominated for an Oscar for his impressive role. They were supported by friends like Nigella Lawson, Vanessa Redgrave, and Rupert Everett. But nothing could soften the blow of watching his wife of 34 years die. Their partnership, along with their adult daughter Oilly, was a beautiful love story. Before her death, Joan charged Grant and Oillly to find a way to move forward with happiness. Thus, the title of this book was born. Joan may have died at 71, but her legacy lives on in the love of her husband and daughter. This book offers an insider's view into a real-life Hollywood love story. Bravo, Mr. Grant. I hope you keep on walking and talking through the grief. To buy this book on Amazon click here.


Shark Heart by Emily Habeck

I'm not really a science fiction type of girl. But from the moment I started listening to "Shark Heart" by Emily Habeck, I was captivated. The story begins as a fairy tale when Lewis and Wren fall in love, and decide to get married. They share hopes and dreams of starting a family, and building a beautiful life together. However, the newlyweds are thrown for a loop during their first year of marriage when Lewis is diagnosed with a disorder that will turn him, eventually, into a great white shark. As Lewis begins to morph from human to shark, from carnivore to pescatarian, their relationship and marriage are put to the test. I don't want to give away too much here, but it is important to point out that this is really not a book about a man turning into a great white shark. It is a metaphor for the human condition, and any couple struggling with a terminal diagnosis. Think ALS, think brain cancer, think pancreatic cancer. Lewis is a man facing any one of these debilitating diseases. Despite the grim prognosis, the novel is filled with hope, joy and humor. Themes of everlasting love, grief, disability, death, and inspiration are all woven into this gem of a novel. Hailing from Ardmore, Oklahoma, this is Habeck's first novel. Her writing is out-of-the-box creative and original, and I hope this is just the beginning of her writing career.  To buy this book on Amazon click here.