The Rest of Our Lives by Ben Markovits
I so often read books written by women, for women and about women. So how refreshing it was to listen to this audio book about a man named Tom. This book is written by a man, about a man, that is a terrific read for everyone. It is about raising children, falling in and out of love, and aging. These are all of the subjects that deeply matter to me. How can we live our best and brightest lives until the end. I think Markovits has an excellent roadmap to share. As Tom’s children were growing up, he found out his wife was having an affair. She ended the affair, and he vowed to divorce her in 12 years, on the eve of taking their youngest daughter to college. Tom’s decision to stay with his wife through their children’s launch into college is not the most modern decision but it was Tom’s commitment. He wanted to make it through his daughter’s high school graduation, and he did. So, the story begins when his wife decides to let Tom take their daughter alone to her college in Pittsburgh. However, the twist is that after dropping his daughter at college, he does not return to Westchester to his wife and home. Instead, he spontaneously embarks on a road trip of self-discovery. He heads west to visit an old college friend, an ex-girlfriend, his brother and his son. Along the road, we see Tom struggling with some health issues that he has been ignoring. Others are supportive and try to help, although his wife never did. So, this is not only a novel about a new adventure, but also a story about aging. How do we spend our time when our children are launched? How do we stay in a long-term marriage, or leave it? What do we picture our final years to be like? “The Rest of Our Lives” by Markovits is a lovely road-trip novel, and thoughtful read from a male perspective. To buy this book on Amazon click here.